Halachaהלכה

The Order and Laws of Levayat Ha-Met

Sources detailing the structure of a funeral procession, including who walks before and after the bier, the roles of pallbearers and their replacements, and the obligations incumbent on mourners and bystanders during removal to burial. The sources span from Tanakh through medieval and later halakhic codes.

נוֹשְׂאֵי הַמִּטָּה וְחִלּוּפֵיהֶן אֶת שֶׁלִּפְנֵי הַמִּטָּה וְאֶת שֶׁלְּאַחַר הַמִּטָּה

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What the sources say

The foundation of the entire levaya rests on a Rabbinic positive commandment rooted in "Love your neighbor as yourself" (Rambam, Mishneh Torah, Mourning 14:1–8), encompassing carrying the corpse on one's shoulders, walking before the bier, eulogizing, digging, and burying — a complete chain of obligations from the moment the deceased leaves the house until interment.

The moral weight of that obligation is underscored by Berakhot 18a, where Rav Yehuda teaches that one who sees the deceased being taken to burial and does not escort him transgresses the verse "He who mocks the poor blasphemes his Creator" (Mishlei 17:5), while one who does escort him is rewarded as though lending to God Himself.

The biblical prototype for a grand levaya appears in Bereishit 50:7–9, where Yosef ascended to bury his father Yaakov accompanied by all the officials of Pharaoh, Egypt's dignitaries, Joseph's household, his brothers, his father's household, chariots, and horsemen — "a very large troop" — establishing the ideal of broad communal accompaniment.

This ideal finds legal expression in the suspension of Torah study for the sake of accompanying the deceased: Shulchan Arukh, Yoreh De'ah 361:1 rules that for a scholar who taught others there is no limit — even thousands must interrupt their learning for him — while for one who merely studied but did not teach, sixty myriads in attendance suffices to exempt bystanders, and for one who neither read nor studied, the presence of any designated attendants is sufficient, with the Rema adding that in practice today we treat everyone as falling under the more stringent categories.

The physical arrangement of pallbearers and escorts around the bier is treated already in Mishnah Berakhot 3:1 and elaborated in Berakhot 17b: those carrying the bier, their replacements, and their replacements' replacements, together with those walking before and after the bier who are actually needed for it, are all exempt from reciting Shema; and the Ramban, Torat HaAdam, Inyan HaHotza'ah further specifies that those walking before the bier who are needed are also forbidden from wearing sandals, while those walking behind who are not needed remain obligated in Shema but exempt from prayer.

Regarding the order in which people exit the house, Shulchan Arukh, Yoreh De'ah 358:3 records (in the Rema's gloss) that in some communities the immediate mourners leave the house first, followed by the relatives and the bier, with more distant attendants placing the body on the bier and then the mourners and relatives lifting it onto their shoulders, after which the rest of the people take over — and Arukh HaShulchan, Yoreh De'ah 358 quotes this same custom verbatim, indicating its broad acceptance.

Kitzur Shulchan Arukh 197:8 adds a specific caution for the moment the deceased is taken out of the house: no one may walk out ahead of him, though the pallbearers who must exit first in order to receive the body are exempt from this concern.

Once the procession reaches the cemetery, the Rema in Shulchan Arukh, Yoreh De'ah 358:3 records the custom of halting the bier every four cubits before burial, and in practice today halting two or three times before reciting Tzidduk HaDin, with no halts required on days when Tzidduk HaDin is omitted.

After burial and the return from the cemetery, Mishnah Berakhot 3:2 governs those who accompanied the deceased: if they can begin and complete Shema before reaching the comforting row, they begin; if not, they do not — and those standing in the inner row facing the mourners are exempt from Shema, while those in the outer row are obligated.

A tension of precedence arises when a funeral procession encounters a bridal procession: Arukh HaShulchan, Yoreh De'ah 360 rules, following the Tur and Shulchan Arukh, that the bride takes priority and is brought under the chuppah first, after which the burial proceeds.

The Shelah HaKadosh draws the theological through-line: Shelah HaKadosh, Torah Shebikhtav, Vayechi grounds all attendance at burial and the rites of mourning in the positive commandment of "You shall walk in His ways" (Devarim 28:9), citing the Smag — just as God buries the dead, so too must we, making the levaya an act of imitatio Dei.

The Gemara in Moed Katan 27b records that the Sages instituted burial on a plain bier for all, out of concern for the dignity of the poor who could not afford elaborate biers, and that the bier may not be set down in the public thoroughfare — Rabban Gamliel himself demonstrated the principle of dignity-in-simplicity by instructing that he be buried in linen garments, a practice the entire people then adopted.

The Mishnah in Mishnah Sanhedrin 2:3 records the dispute about whether a king may follow the bier at all, with Rabbi Yehuda permitting it and citing King David walking after the bier of Avner — though the Sages reply that David did so only to appease the people, not as a normative act.

Gesher HaChaim 14:9 is not available in full text for Mekoros to read, but on our reading of the cited page, it concludes that even one who is personally exempt from interrupting Torah study or labor to accompany the deceased must nonetheless stand in honor when a funeral procession passes before him, drawing on the Jerusalem Talmud for this distinction.

Source 1 · Tanach
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Genesis 50:7–9

בראשית נ׳:ז׳-ט׳

Genesis 50:7-9

The Torah describes the great procession accompanying Yaakov's bier from Egypt to Canaan — with chariots, horsemen, elders of Israel, and all of Pharaoh's court — the archetypal model of levayat ha-met in Jewish tradition.

וַיַּ֥עַל יוֹסֵ֖ף לִקְבֹּ֣ר אֶת־אָבִ֑יו וַיַּֽעֲל֨וּ אִתּ֜וֹ כׇּל־עַבְדֵ֤י פַרְעֹה֙ זִקְנֵ֣י בֵית֔וֹ וְכֹ֖ל זִקְנֵ֥י אֶֽרֶץ־מִצְרָֽיִם׃ וְכֹל֙ בֵּ֣ית יוֹסֵ֔ף וְאֶחָ֖יו וּבֵ֣ית אָבִ֑יו רַ֗ק טַפָּם֙ וְצֹאנָ֣ם וּבְקָרָ֔ם עָזְב֖וּ בְּאֶ֥רֶץ גֹּֽשֶׁן׃ וַיַּ֣עַל עִמּ֔וֹ גַּם־רֶ֖כֶב גַּם־פָּרָשִׁ֑ים וַיְהִ֥י הַֽמַּחֲנֶ֖ה כָּבֵ֥ד מְאֹֽד׃

So Joseph went up to bury his father; and with him went up all the officials of Pharaoh, the senior members of his court, and all of Egypt’s dignitaries, together with all of Joseph’s household, his brothers, and his father’s household; only their children, their flocks, and their herds were left in the region of Goshen. Chariots and charioteers as well went up with him; it was a very large troop.

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Berakhot 17b

ברכות י״ז ב

Berakhot 17b

The pallbearers and their replacements, along with those walking before the mitah and those walking after it, are all exempt from prayer; those walking before the mitah whom the mitah needs are exempt from other obligations, while those walking after the mitah whom the mitah needs are obligated in other obligations.

נוֹשְׂאֵי הַמִּטָּה וְחִלּוּפֵיהֶן, וְחִלּוּפֵי חִלּוּפֵיהֶן, אֶת שֶׁלִּפְנֵי הַמִּטָּה, וְאֶת שֶׁלְּאַחַר הַמִּטָּה. אֶת שֶׁלִּפְנֵי הַמִּטָּה צוֹרֶךְ בָּהֶם — פְּטוּרִין, וְאֶת שֶׁלְּאַחַר הַמִּטָּה צוֹרֶךְ בָּהֶם — חַיָּיבִין. וְאֵלּוּ וָאֵלּוּ פְּטוּרִים מִן הַתְּפִלָּה.

See also

  • Metzudat David on Proverbs 21:24unverifiedFiled under: Yuhara - The appearance of arrogant self-righteousness in Mitzvah performance
  • Bava Batra 10bunverifiedFiled under: Yuhara - The appearance of arrogant self-righteousness in Mitzvah performance
  • Bava Kamma 59bunverifiedFiled under: Yuhara - The appearance of arrogant self-righteousness in Mitzvah performance
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Mishnah Sanhedrin 2:3

משנה סנהדרין ב׳:ג׳

Mishnah Sanhedrin 2:3

The Mishnah records that even a Kohen Gadol and a king are obligated to accompany the bier of the deceased, indicating the universal and paramount nature of the mitzvah of levayat ha-met.

רַבִּי יְהוּדָה אוֹמֵר, אִם רוֹצֶה לָצֵאת אַחַר הַמִּטָּה, יוֹצֵא, שֶׁכֵּן מָצִינוּ בְדָוִד שֶׁיָּצָא אַחַר מִטָּתוֹ שֶׁל אַבְנֵר, שֶׁנֶּאֱמַר (שם ג) וְהַמֶּלֶךְ דָּוִד הֹלֵךְ אַחֲרֵי הַמִּטָּה. אָמְרוּ לוֹ, לֹא הָיָה הַדָּבָר אֶלָּא לְפַיֵּס אֶת הָעָם.

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Mishnah Berakhot 3:1

משנה ברכות ג׳:א׳

Mishnah Berakhot 3:1

Those who carry the mitah, their replacements, and replacements of replacements, those walking before the mitah and those walking after it—those needed for the mitah are exempt from certain obligations, while those not needed for the mitah are obligated.

נוֹשְׂאֵי הַמִּטָּה וְחִלּוּפֵיהֶן וְחִלּוּפֵי חִלּוּפֵיהֶן, אֶת שֶׁלִּפְנֵי הַמִּטָּה וְאֶת שֶׁלְּאַחַר הַמִּטָּה, אֶת שֶׁלַּמִּטָּה צֹרֶךְ בָּהֶן פְּטוּרִים, וְאֶת שֶׁאֵין לַמִּטָּה צֹרֶךְ בָּהֶן חַיָּבִין.

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Mishnah Berakhot 3:2

משנה ברכות ג׳:ב׳

Mishnah Berakhot 3:2

The Mishnah discusses those bearing or accompanying the bier in rotation — who is carrying and who is not — and their respective obligations regarding Shema, demonstrating the detailed halakhic structure of the procession itself.

קָבְרוּ אֶת הַמֵּת וְחָזְרוּ, אִם יְכוֹלִין לְהַתְחִיל וְלִגְמֹר עַד שֶׁלֹּא יַגִּיעוּ לַשּׁוּרָה, יַתְחִילוּ. וְאִם לָאו, לֹא יַתְחִילוּ. הָעוֹמְדִים בַּשּׁוּרָה, הַפְּנִימִים פְּטוּרִים, וְהַחִיצוֹנִים חַיָּבִין:

After they buried the deceased and returned, if they have sufficient time to begin to recite Shema and conclude before they arrive at the row, formed by those who attended the burial, through which the bereaved family will pass in order to receive consolation, they should begin. If they do not have sufficient time to conclude reciting the entire Shema, then they should not begin. And those standing in the row, those in the interior row, directly before whom the mourners will pass and who will console them, are exempt from reciting Shema, while those in the exterior row, who stand there only to show their respect, are obligated to recite Shema.

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Moed Katan 27b

מועד קטן כ״ז ב — ד"ה בִּכְלִיכָה

Moed Katan 27b:1

The Gemara discusses the practices surrounding the levaya and burial — including the hespedim, the procession, and carrying of the bier — and records various rabbinic decrees enacted to ensure dignity for both the dead and the mourners.

בִּכְלִיכָה, וְהָיוּ עֲנִיִּים מִתְבַּיְּישִׁין. הִתְקִינוּ שֶׁיְּהוּ הַכֹּל מוֹצִיאִין בִּכְלִיכָה, מִפְּנֵי כְּבוֹדָן שֶׁל עֲנִיִּים. בָּרִאשׁוֹנָה הָיְתָה הוֹצָאַת הַמֵּת קָשָׁה לִקְרוֹבָיו יוֹתֵר מִמִּיתָתוֹ, עַד שֶׁהָיוּ קְרוֹבָיו מַנִּיחִין אוֹתוֹ וּבוֹרְחִין. עַד שֶׁבָּא רַבָּן גַּמְלִיאֵל וְנָהַג קַלּוּת רֹאשׁ בְּעַצְמוֹ, וְיָצָא בִּכְלֵי פִשְׁתָּן, וְנָהֲגוּ הָעָם אַחֲרָיו לָצֵאת בִּכְלֵי פִשְׁתָּן. אָמַר רַב פָּפָּא: וְהָאִידָּנָא נְהוּג עָלְמָא אֲפִילּוּ בְּצַרְדָּא בַּר זוּזָא. אֵין מַנִּיחִין אֶת הַמִּטָּה בָּרְחוֹב. אָמַר רַב פָּפָּא: אֵין מוֹעֵד בִּפְנֵי תַּלְמִיד חָכָם, וְכׇל שֶׁכֵּן חֲנוּכָּה וּפוּרִים.

on a plain bier made from poles that were strapped together, and the poor were embarrassed. The Sages instituted that everyone should be taken out for burial on a plain bier, due to the honor of the poor. Likewise, at first taking the dead out for burial was more difficult for the relatives than the actual death, because it was customary to bury the dead in expensive shrouds, which the poor could not afford. The problem grew to the point that relatives would sometimes abandon the corpse and run away. This lasted until Rabban Gamliel came and acted with frivolity, meaning that he waived his dignity, by leaving instructions that he be taken out for burial in linen garments. And the people adopted this practice after him and had themselves taken out for burial in linen garments. Rav Pappa said: And nowadays, everyone follows the practice of taking out the dead for burial even in plain hemp garments [tzerada] that cost only a dinar. It is taught in the mishna: The bier of the deceased is not set down in the street during the intermediate days of a Festival, so as not to encourage eulogies. Rav Pappa said: There are no restrictions on eulogizing on the intermediate days of a Festival in the presence of a deceased Torah scholar, and therefore he may be eulogized in the ordinary manner during the Festival week. And all the more so a Torah scholar may be eulogized on the days of Hanukkah and Purim, which have less sanctity than the intermediate days of a Festival.

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Berakhot 18a

ברכות י״ח א — ד"ה אָמַר רַחֲבָה אָמַר רַב יְהוּדָה

Berakhot 18a:12

The Gemara discusses the dead's awareness and the obligation of levayat ha-met — accompanying the bier — noting that those engaged in the mitzvah of accompanying the dead are exempt from other mitzvot, underscoring the primacy of this obligation.

אָמַר רַחֲבָה אָמַר רַב יְהוּדָה: כָּל הָרוֹאֶה הַמֵּת וְאֵינוֹ מְלַוֵּהוּ עוֹבֵר מִשּׁוּם ״לֹעֵג לָרָשׁ חֵרֵף עֹשֵׂהוּ״. וְאִם הִלְוָהוּ מַה שְּׂכָרוֹ? אָמַר רַב אַסִּי, עָלָיו הַכָּתוּב אוֹמֵר: ״מַלְוֵה ה׳ חוֹנֵן דָּל״ ״וּמְכַבְּדוֹ חֹנֵן אֶבְיוֹן״.

Raḥava said that Rav Yehuda said: One who sees the deceased taken to burial and does not escort him has committed a transgression due to the verse: “He who mocks the poor blasphemes his Creator.” (Proverbs 17:5) And if he does escort him, what is his reward? Rav Asi said: The verse says about him: “He who gives to the poor gives a loan to the Lord, and the Lord will repay him” (Proverbs 19:17), and: “He who oppresses the poor blasphemes his Creator, but he who is gracious to the poor honors Him” (Proverbs 14:31).

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Torat HaAdam, Inyan HaHotza'ah

תורת האדם, שער הסוף, ענין ההוצאה

Torat HaAdam, The Gate of Mortality, The Matter of Removal

Ramban dedicates a full section to the laws of carrying out the dead (hotza'at ha-met) — the order of the procession, who walks before versus behind the bier, the obligation on bystanders to rise and join, and when these obligations apply.

הוציאוהו סובלי המטה וחלופיהן וחילופי חילופיהן את שלפני המטה צורך בהן פטורים מק"ש ואסורים בנעילת הסנדל, ואת שלאחר המטה שאין למטה צורך בהן חייבין בקריאת שמע ומותרין בנעילת הסנדל, אבל אלו ואלו פטורים מן התפלה ומן התפלין. קברו את המת וחזרו אם יכולין להתחיל ולגמור עד שלא יגיעו לשורה עומדין ואחר כך קורין ואם לאו קורין ומתפללין ואחר כך עומדין.

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Mishneh Torah, Mourning 14:1–8

משנה תורה, הלכות אבל י״ד:א׳-ח׳

Mishneh Torah, Mourning 14:1-8

Rambam codifies the laws of levayat ha-met in detail: who must accompany the bier, the minimum distance required to fulfill the mitzvah, that it is an obligation of chesed shel emet, and the order of the procession.

מִצְוַת עֲשֵׂה שֶׁל דִּבְרֵיהֶם לְבַקֵּר חוֹלִים. וּלְנַחֵם אֲבֵלִים. וּלְהוֹצִיא הַמֵּת. וּלְהַכְנִיס הַכַּלָּה. וּלְלַוּוֹת הָאוֹרְחִים. וּלְהִתְעַסֵּק בְּכָל צָרְכֵי הַקְּבוּרָה. לָשֵׂאת עַל הַכָּתֵף. וְלֵילֵךְ לְפָנָיו וְלִסְפֹּד וְלַחְפֹּר וְלִקְבֹּר. וְכֵן לְשַׂמֵּחַ הַכַּלָּה וְהֶחָתָן. וּלְסַעֲדָם בְּכָל צָרְכֵיהֶם. וְאֵלּוּ הֵן גְּמִילוּת חֲסָדִים שֶׁבְּגוּפוֹ שֶׁאֵין לָהֶם שִׁעוּר. אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁכָּל מִצְוֹת אֵלּוּ מִדִּבְרֵיהֶם הֲרֵי הֵן בִּכְלַל (ויקרא יט יח) "וְאָהַבְתָּ לְרֵעֲךָ כָּמוֹךָ". כָּל הַדְּבָרִים שֶׁאַתָּה רוֹצֶה שֶׁיַּעֲשׂוּ אוֹתָם לְךָ אֲחֵרִים. עֲשֵׂה אַתָּה אוֹתָן לְאָחִיךְ בְּתוֹרָה וּבְמִצְוֹת: מִי שֶׁהָיָה לְפָנָיו מֵת וְכַלָּה. מֵנִיחַ אֶת הַכַּלָּה וּמִתְעַסֵּק עִם הַמֵּת. וְכֵן הוּא אוֹמֵר (קהלת ז ד) "לֵב חֲכָמִים בְּבֵית אֵבֶל" וְגוֹ'. מֵת וְכַלָּה שֶׁפָּגְעוּ זֶה בָּזֶה בַּדֶּרֶךְ. מַעֲבִירִין אֶת הַמֵּת מִלִּפְנֵי הַכַּלָּה. וְזֶה וְזֶה עוֹבְרִין מִלִּפְנֵי הַמֶּלֶךְ:

It is a positive commandment of Rabbinic origin to visit the sick, comfort mourners, to prepare for a funeral, prepare a bride, accompany guests, attend to all the needs of a burial, carry a corpse on one's shoulders, walk before the bier, mourn, dig a grave, and bury the dead, and also to bring joy to a bride and groom and help them in all their needs. These are deeds of kindness that one carries out with his person that have no limit. Although all these mitzvot are of Rabbinic origin, they are included in the Scriptural commandment Leviticus 19:18: "Love your neighbor as yourself." That charge implies that whatever you would like other people to do for you, you should do for your comrade in the Torah and mitzvot. When a person is faced with either tending to a corpse or a bride, he should leave the bride and occupy himself with the corpse. Thus Ecclesiastes 7:4 states: "The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning." When a corpse and a bride confront each other on a road, the corpse is turned aside before the bride. Both of these should turn aside before a king

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Shulchan Arukh, Yoreh De'ah 361

שולחן ערוך, יורה דעה שס״א — ד"ה הלוית המת ובטול ת"ת להלויתו

Shulchan Arukh, Yoreh De'ah 361:1

One must suspend Torah study to accompany the dead for burial, with the obligation varying by the deceased's scholarly level: unlimited suspension for one who taught others, but no suspension required if sixty myriads attend someone who only studied without teaching, or if someone else is already managing burial needs and at least ten people are present; the obligation applies specifically during removal to burial rather than while the dead awaits burial, and one who sees the dead but does not accompany them violates a prohibition, though minimally accompanying them for four cubits suffices.

הלוית המת ובטול ת"ת להלויתו. ובו ה' סעיפים: מבטלין תלמוד תורה להוצאת המת למאן דמתני לאחרים אין לו שיעור אפילו יש עמו כמה אלפים מתבטל בשבילו למאן דקרי ותני דהיינו שקרא ושנה ועדיין לא שנה לתלמידים אם יש ס' רבוא אין צריך להתבטל בשבילו למאן דלא קרי ותני כיון שיש לו מי שיתעסק עמו אין צריך להתבטל בשבילו והוא שיש שם עשרה (וי"א דעכשיו מן הסתם מבטלין שאין לך אחד מישראל בזמן הזה שאינו במקרא או במשנה) (ב"י בשם הריטב"א פ"ב דכתובות שכ"כ בשם סמ"ג) ואשה י"א שדינה כמאן דקרי ותני וי"א שדינה כמאן דלא קרי ותני וכן נהגו באשה ותינוק לקולא ואין מבטלין ת"ת למת כשיש מי שיתעסק עמו כל צרכו אלא עוסק בתורה ואינו צריך לצאת ולראות אם יש עמו כל צרכו אם לאו אלא כיון שיש שם מי שיעשה מעשה תלמוד תורה שלו קודם ותינוקות של בית רבן אין מתבטלין כלל: במה דברים אמורים שמבטלין תלמוד תורה ללוותו בשעת הוצאתו אבל כל זמן שמוטל לקברו אין מבטלין בשבילו ת"ת אלא אם יש חבורות בעיר שכל אחת מתעסקת יומה אותה שאינה יומה מותרת בין בלימוד בין בשאר מלאכות ובשעת הוצאה מבטלין מכל שאר מלאכות ובאים ללוותו אפילו אי לא קרי ותני דלא מפלגינן בין לא קרי ותני אלא בביטול ת"ת אבל בשאר מלאכות אפילו אי לא קרי ותני הכל בטלים ובאים ללוותו ואם אין חבורות בעיר כל בעלי מלאכות צריכים להתבטל ולהתעסק בו עד שיקבר אבל מתלמוד תורה אין צריכים להתבטל אלא בשעת הוצאתו כדאמרן: הרואה את המת ואינו מלוהו עובר משום לועג לרש ובר נידוי הוא ולפחות ילוונו ד' אמות:

One suspends the study of the Torah for the sake of taking out the dead [for burial]. For one who taught others there is no limit, [i.e.,] even if there are many thousands [present] with him [the dead], one must suspend himself [from studies] for his sake. For one who read [Bible] and studied [Mishna], i.e., one who read [Bible] and studied [Mishna] but has not yet taught students, — if there are sixty myriads [attending the funeral], one need not suspend himself [from studies] for his sake. For one who has not read [Bible] nor studied [Mishna], — as long as there is someone looking after [his burial needs], one need not suspend himself [from studies] for his sake, provided that [at least] ten people are [present] there. Some say that today, [even] without knowing [one's scholastic ability] we suspend [studies], for there is no man from among Israel nowadays, who is not [versed] in Bible or Mishna. [With respect to] a woman, some say that her status is like one who read [Bible] and studied [Mishna]; and some say that her status is like one who has not read [Bible] nor studied [Mishna]. And thus is the accepted practice regarding a woman and a child, — to adopt the lenient view. One does not suspend the study of the Torah for the sake of attending to [the burial needs of] the dead, when there is someone [else] who will attend to his need[s] sufficiently; but one occupies himself with [the study of] the Torah and is not required to go out and see whether all his [burial] need[s] are [attended to] or not; but as long as there is some one who will perform the [necessary] work [with respect to the corpse], his study of the Torah has priority. School children are not suspended [from their studies] at all. When does this apply, [viz.,] that we suspend the study of the Torah to escort him [for burial]? — [Only] during the time he is brought out [for burial]; but as long as he still] lies awaiting burial, we do not suspend for his sake the study of the Torah, only that if there are [burial] associations in the city, of which each one [association] attends to [the burial needs] on its [particular] day, [then] the one [association] for whom [this] is not its [particular] day, is permitted both study and other types of work. During the time [the corpse] is brought out [for burial] we suspend [ourselves] from all types of work and come to escort him, even if he did not read [Bible] nor study [Mishna], for [the law is that] we make a distinction in the case of one who did not read [Bible] nor study [Mishna] only regarding suspension of the study of the Torah, but in the case of other occupations, even if one did not read [Bible] nor study [Mishna] all are suspended [from work], and come to escort him. If, however, there are no [burial] associations in the city, all workmen are required to be suspended [from work] and to attend to him until he is buried, but they are required to be suspended from the study of the Torah only at the time of the funeral escort as we have stated. One who sees a corpse and does not escort him transgresses thereby, 'Whoso mocketh the poor [blasphemeth his Maker], and should be placed under a ban; and one should escort him at least four cubits.

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Kitzur Shulchan Arukh 197

קיצור שלחן ערוך קצ״ז — ד"ה כְּשֶׁמּוֹצִיאִין אֶת הַמֵּת מִן הַבַּיִת

Kitzur Shulchan Arukh 197:8

The Kitzur codifies the practical laws of accompanying the dead, including the obligation incumbent on all who see the procession, the minimum participation required, and conduct during the procession.

כְּשֶׁמּוֹצִיאִין אֶת הַמֵּת מִן הַבַּיִת, יֵשׁ לִזָּהֵר שֶׁלֹּא יֵצֵא אָדָם רִאשׁוֹן. אַךְ הַמִּתְעַסְּקִים שֶׁצְּרִיכִין לֵילֵךְ רִאשׁוֹן מִן הַבַּיִת כְּדֵי לְנָשְׂאוֹ, אֵין קְפֵּידָא.

When the deceased is being taken from the house, care must be exercised that no one should walk out ahead of him. The pallbearers, however, who must exit the house first, in order to carry him out, need not be concerned about this.

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Arukh HaShulchan, Yoreh De'ah 358

ערוך השולחן, יורה דעה שנ״ח

Arukh HaShulchan, Yoreh De'ah 358

The Arukh HaShulchan elaborates on the laws of kevod ha-met during the levaya, including the prohibition of idle speech in the presence of the met, who leads the procession, and the conduct required of all who accompany the bier.

יש מקומות שנהגו שהאבלים יוצאים ראשון מן הבית, והקרובים והמיטה אחריהם. והרחוקים נותנים המת על המיטה, ולוקחים האבלים והקרובים המיטה על כתפיהם, ואחר כך שאר העם. עד כאן לשונו.

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Arukh HaShulchan, Yoreh De'ah 360

ערוך השולחן, יורה דעה ש״ס

Arukh HaShulchan, Yoreh De'ah 360

The Arukh HaShulchan discusses who is obligated to accompany the met, the minimum distances involved, whether women accompany the procession, and the rules regarding the onen's role during the levaya.

מעבירין את המת מלפני הכלה (כתובות יז א). אם פגעו זה בזה בדרך – מקדימין הכלה תחילה. וכתבו הטור והשולחן ערוך דהוא הדין נמי להקדים, שאם אין בעיר אנשים כדי ליתן כבוד לזה ולזה – מקדימין ומכניסין הכלה לחופה תחילה, ואחר כך קוברין המת.

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Shulchan Arukh, Yoreh De'ah 358

שולחן ערוך, יורה דעה שנ״ח — ד"ה במקום שיש כתפים מיוחדים לשאת את

Shulchan Arukh, Yoreh De'ah 358:3

The Shulchan Arukh rules that it is forbidden to derive benefit from a dead body and discusses the honor owed to the met — including the conduct of the procession — and that bystanders must stop and accompany the bier at least four amot.

במקום שיש כתפים מיוחדים לשאת את המטה אסורי' בנעילת הסנדל שמא יפסיק סנדלו של אחד מהם ונמצא מתעכב מהמצוה: הגה יש מקומות שנהגו שהאבלים יוצאים ראשון מן הבית והקרובים והמטה אחריהם והרחוקים נותנין המת על המטה ולוקחים האבלים והקרובים המטה על כתפיהם ואחר כך שאר העם (כל בו) יש אומרים כשמגיעים עם המת לקברות מעמידים אותו כל ד' אמות קודם שנקבר (שם וב"ז) וכן נהגו האידנא להעמידו ב' ג' פעמים קודם שאומרים עליו צדוק הדין ובימים שאין אומרים צדוק הדין אין צריכים להעמיד אותו (מ"כ בשם מהרי"ל):

In a locality where there are appointed pall-bearers to carry the bier, they [the pall-bearers] are forbidden to put on sandals lest [a thong] of one's sandal break with the result that he is prevented from [observing] the religious act. Gloss: There are localities where it is customary that the [immediate] mourners leave the house first and [then] the relatives and the bier after them, and the strangers place the corpse on the bier, and the [immediate] mourners and the relatives take the bier on their shoulders and afterwards [this is done by] the rest of the people. Some say that when they arrive with the corpse at the graveyard, they make halts with him [the corpse] every four cubits before he is buried. Thus is the common practice today,—to make halts with him two or three times before they recite Ẓidduk Haddin for him; and on days when Ẓidduk Haddin is not recited it is unnecessary to make halts with him.

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recovered from “Shenei Luchot HaBerit, Torah Shebikhtav, Vayechi

Shelah HaKadosh, Torah Shebikhtav, Vayechi

שני לוחות הברית, תורה שבכתב, ויחי, נר מצוה — ד"ה גמילות חסדים

Shenei Luchot HaBerit, Torah Shebikhtav, Vayechi, Ner Mitzvah:2

The Shelah discusses the paradigmatic levaya of Yaakov Avinu — accompanied by a great retinue from Egypt to Canaan — as the model for the mitzvah of levayat ha-met, drawing out its spiritual and ethical dimensions.

גמילות חסדים , בפרט חסד שעושים עם המתים, כמו שאמר יעקב (בראשית מז, כט) ועשית עמדי חסד ואמת. וכן העוסק בצרכי קבורה והאבילות כנזכר בסוף הפרשה, והכל נכלל בכלל מצות עשה (דברים כח, ט) דוהלכת בדרכיו, ונכלל שם מה הוא קובר מתים כו'. והלכת בדרכיו הוא מצות עשה מרמ"ח מצות עשה כמו שכתב הסמ"ג, והעתקי דבריו ריש פרשת וירא (נר מצוה):

The positive commandment mentioned in our portion is that of גמילות חסד, the performing of a deed of loving kindness, and specifically that of performing a service for a person after he has died. Such deeds are called the true גמילות חסד. Jacob described the act of burying his remains in ארץ ישראל as such an act of loving kindness. Attending to the burial of a departed, or performing rites of mourning as described near the end of our פרשה are all part of this מצוה. All of this comes under the heading of the positive commandment: והלכת בדרכיו, "You shall walk in His ways, which the סמ"ג enumerates in his list of the 248 positive commandments. I have copied the exact words of the סמ"ג on this subject at the beginning of פרשת וירא.

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Gesher HaChaim 14:9

גשר החיים, ח״א סי׳ י״ד

Gesher HaChaim 14:9

When a Chevra Kadisha or sufficient attendants are present, one is not required to interrupt Torah study to accompany the deceased, though one must still stand in honor of a passing funeral procession, doing so to honor both the deceased and those performing the mitzvah of levaya.

ולמאן דלא קרי ותני א״צ לבטל מלמוד תורה להתעסק בו

On this pageThe passage discusses the halachic obligations of accompanying the deceased (levayat hameit) and when one is required to pause Torah study or work to do so. It explains that the presence of an established Chevra Kadisha exempts other residents from pausing work, and defines the obligations of bystanders who encounter a funeral procession. The passage discusses the obligation to stand in honor of a passing funeral procession. Even in cases where a person is exempt from accompanying the deceased (such as when they are actively engaged in Torah study or labor and the deceased has sufficient attendees), they must still stand when they see the procession. The author notes from the Jerusalem Talmud that this standing is intended to honor not only the deceased but also the people performing the mitzvah of accompanying the casket.

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