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משך חכמה — שור אחיך / חמור אחיך — לעומת אויבך ושונאך במשפטים

Why does Mishpatim call the animal's owner "אויבך" / "שונאך" while Ki Teitzei calls him "אחיך"?

וזה היה קודם העגל, אשר היו כולם 'ממלכת כהנים וגוי קדוש', אז היה שרי לשנויי אם ראה בו עבירה. לא כן אחרי כל המסות אשר נכשלו בעונות — אם יראה אדם בחבירו חטא, אם יפשפש במעשיו ימצא כמה מכשולים ופקפוקים, זה בפרט זה וזה בפרט זה.

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Meshekh Chokhmah, Ki Tetze:20

Q — Why does Mishpatim call the animal's owner "אויבך" / "שונאך" while Ki Teitzei calls him "אחיך"?

A — Mishpatim was BEFORE chet ha'egel — when all Israel were "ממלכת כהנים וגוי קדוש" and sin was rare; a sinner was an exception, and seeing one sin generated legitimate hatred. After the egel, sins multiplied — so anyone who sees his fellow sin must search his own deeds and will find his own faults; hatred of the sinner is now reserved only for the truly perfectly righteous ("בני עליה והם מועטים"), and for nearly everyone else the sinner is "אחיך" — an equal in need of love.

וזה היה קודם העגל, אשר היו כולם 'ממלכת כהנים וגוי קדוש', אז היה שרי לשנויי אם ראה בו עבירה. לא כן אחרי כל המסות אשר נכשלו בעונות — אם יראה אדם בחבירו חטא, אם יפשפש במעשיו ימצא כמה מכשולים ופקפוקים, זה בפרט זה וזה בפרט זה.

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