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הכתב והקבלה — ועשה חסד לאלפים לאהבי ולשמרי מצותי

'לאהבי *ו*שמרי מצותי' — the vav is puzzling. If love of Hashem necessarily entails keeping His mitzvot ('every lover does the will of the beloved'), the verse should read 'לאהבי שמרי מצותי' — those who love AND keep, one group. Why two separate categories?

לאוהבי ולשומרי מצותי. כל אוהב עושה רצון הנאהב, דכשאין עושה רצונו הנה הוא מפר ברית האהבה, ולא משכחת לה אהבת ה' בלתי שמירת מצותיו... אם כן מה הוא 'ולשומרי'? כי היה ראוי 'שומרי'... ונראה לי, דלתנא קמא 'אוהבי' ו'שומרי מצותי' תרי [סוגי אהבה הם].

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הכתב והקבלה, שמות כ׳:י״ג

HaKtav VeHaKabalah, Exodus 20:13

Q — 'לאהבי *ו*שמרי מצותי' — the vav is puzzling. If love of Hashem necessarily entails keeping His mitzvot ('every lover does the will of the beloved'), the verse should read 'לאהבי שמרי מצותי' — those who love AND keep, one group. Why two separate categories?

A — HaKtav VeHaKabbalah, following the Mechilta Tana Kama, identifies two kinds of love. 'לאהבי' refers to Avraham and those like him — *spontaneous, natural* love of Hashem, the love that springs unprompted from a refined soul. 'ולשמרי מצותי' refers to the נביאים and זקנים — those whose love is *cultivated via the discipline of mitzvot*; love accessed through obedience, not bypassing it. Ramban worried this made the prophets seem to serve for reward; HaKtav saves them: both groups are lovers, but one route runs from heart outward to action, the other from action inward to heart. The vav is the distinction between the spontaneous and the disciplined lover — both Hashem's beloved.

לאוהבי ולשומרי מצותי. כל אוהב עושה רצון הנאהב, דכשאין עושה רצונו הנה הוא מפר ברית האהבה, ולא משכחת לה אהבת ה' בלתי שמירת מצותיו... אם כן מה הוא 'ולשומרי'? כי היה ראוי 'שומרי'... ונראה לי, דלתנא קמא 'אוהבי' ו'שומרי מצותי' תרי [סוגי אהבה הם].

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