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אבן עזרא — בן סורר ומורה / סמיכות לאשת יפת תאר

The parsha of ben sorer u'moreh sits adjacent to the parsha of eshet yefat to'ar. Is the placement merely organizational, or does it teach something substantive about the cause-and-effect chain that produces a rebellious child?

ונסמכה זו הפרשה בעבור אשת יפת תאר, והעד: 'ושם אמו', והרמז שרמזתי בבני אהרן.

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Ibn Ezra on Deuteronomy 21:49

Q — The parsha of ben sorer u'moreh sits adjacent to the parsha of eshet yefat to'ar. Is the placement merely organizational, or does it teach something substantive about the cause-and-effect chain that produces a rebellious child?

A — For Ibn Ezra the adjacency is causal — the mother shapes the child decisively, and an "אשת יפת תאר" may produce a "בן סורר ומורה." He brings two cryptic proofs, captured in the phrase "והעד: 'ושם אמו', והרמז שרמזתי בבני אהרן." (1) The מקלל (Vayikra 24:10-11) is identified not just as the son of an Egyptian father but as "בן האשה הישראלית... ושם אמו שלמית בת דברי למטה דן" — the unusual recording of the mother's name signals that the source of the cursing-son's corruption was maternal. Bad mother → bad son. (2) The contrasting positive proof: Aharon's selection for kehunat olam is traced (Shemot 6:23, 28:1) to his marriage to Elisheva sister of Nachshon Nasi of Yehudah — and Ibn Ezra explicitly states there "הזכיר אחות נחשון בעבור סוד הכהונה" and "תבואת הזרע תשתנה בהשתנות המקומות, על כן נבחרו בני אהרן לכהנת עולם." Good mother → good son, with a dynasty's worth of consequence. The two cases bracket the principle: maternal influence is decisive. And the adjacent placement of yefat to'ar before ben sorer u'moreh warns the father who is following his desires — that there is a downstream cost to whom he marries, paid in the next generation's rebellion. A peshat of pedagogical biology embedded in the parshiyot's order.

ונסמכה זו הפרשה בעבור אשת יפת תאר, והעד: 'ושם אמו', והרמז שרמזתי בבני אהרן.

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